No, I went straight to college and became an architect and I did not give to this country as did he and all the other service members. However that does not mean I have no rights to honor our military service members and to that I do give my highest honor and respect. Today I went to visit LT. Michael Murphy at the Calverton National Cemetery and I have to say what a beautiful visit.
Early April Sunday morning, drizzling rain, mild mid 50 degree temperatures, I made my way to the Cemetery, which is just about 20 minute drive from my house. I arrived and went to the directory to locate his site. With a short drive around the place I found it easy enough. Although there were no visitors save myself you could not miss Murphy's place.
How beautiful and well kept with many memento's, I felt a little bad for all the other sites that had no tributes, but I paid my respects to all the others as well.
Since I was there by myself I could engage Murphy in an audible conversation, hoping somehow he would give me some response, some signal, some how. So the words flew and having read a little about Murph. my dialogue was a bit sarcastic, (no disrespect-never). I joked about how I was unfortunately the only person to come visit him on this particular morning. How shitty life is because I only know him because he made the ultimate sacrifice. I sensed this language he appreciated and He didn't want me to leave nor did I want to leave as I was having fun with this discussion but I was getting wet and thought time up. For some reason and it's up to you to believe it or not, whether you believe in being touched from the beyond or not, I was directed by some form of providence to cross the street, I didn't know why. There I found 2 trash cans. One was labeled trash the other flower pots. In one of them I looked and found an umbrella. Please note I'm not a dumpster diver in any way and normally I do not look in trash cans. I thought "Huh, looks like an umbrella, who would throw this out? Must be broken" Well I took it out and yes you guessed it, it was perfectly working!
The "Murph Umbrella" |
It opened as if bran new and I could find no defects with it. So now I had no excuse not to return to Murph. and continue our conversation, which I did. The last thing I noted and this was fitting, were these beer bottles:
Yes. To share this with you is an honor. That's it. I think I'll visit Murph. again one day-I'm nobody to him but now maybe I am........
Join me in the race around the lake June 25, 2016 at lake Ronkonkoma. - Google it for info.
Cheers.
Update June 25, 2016
Just finished the "Lt. Michael P. Murphy Run Around The Lake" Lake Ronkonkoma, NY. Had a blast:
Me on the right wearing M.P. Murphy shirt |
Could not believe this on this hot race day... |